It's Never About Them, It's Always About You - Business Mentor Blanca Vergara

It’s Never About Them, It’s Always About You

This happy girl got angry last night. Furious!

Yes, your happy Blanca was very upstream. I was putting my attention in a part of reality that I detest: victims. Victims drive me mental. They are the opposite of empowerment. They are negating their Divine nature. They are manipulators… Aggghhh! Anger!

Reality showed me very fast and clear, how judgemental I was!

Few hours after my anger tantrum, I (yes, I!) behaved like a victim: dis-empowered, not owning my Divine nature, manipulating…

I burst in laughter!

Negative emotions never, never, never talk about “them” (your husband, the government, your mother, your customers…) They always talk about YOU. So, what are you going to do about this new insight? Love and compassion are the best remedy. Of course the ultimate first step is laughter! Laugh, forgive yourself and learn from this experience.

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Blanca Vergara

Blanca Vergara MBA, soul entrepreneur, author, speaker and mom, has an uncanny vision for identifying passion and purpose. She has the charm to enthuse and the muscle to move you into action. Blanca delivers post modern, high-impact, transformational solutions for the builders of the Upcoming Heart Centred Economy to authentically renew the world.

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